As a modern parent, sometimes we dream about the idea of
parenting in a world where streets are safe and parents can let their children
run freely through the neighborhood, their bodies naturally challenged with the
exercise of play. Some live in places
where that is still true at least within limits.
For many parents today, before the slam of the car door
fades and the backpack drops on the floor, the TV is switched on and the last
few hours of daylight disappear in a haze of video games and unhealthy snacks.
As well-meaning
parents, we can often stand helpless, wondering how to compete against
marketing genius and instant gratification. Exercise and carrot sticks have a
hard time competing with Xboxes, SpongeBob and junk snacks.
Unfortunately, proof is all around us. According to the
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the health of too many North
Americans is in danger because of unhealthy lifestyles.
(www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/obesity)
The latest data from the National Center for Health
Statistics show that 30 percent of U.S. adults 20 years of age and older - over
60 million people - are obese. The CDC reports the percentage of young people
who are overweight has more than tripled since 1980.
Even if our kids
aren’t obese, we should be concerned because in a world where walking is
limited, school PE programs are being cut and cars, escalators and buses
eliminate our chance for daily exercise naturally, we actually have to make an
effort to make physical activity part of our day and our children’s days.
Research reminds us that despite all the benefits of being
physically active, most Americans are sedentary.
(www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/obesity/contributing_factors.htm). Inactive children
are likely to become inactive adults. (www.americanheart.org/presenter.jhtml?identifier=4596)
As parents how can we
get our kids moving? "The American
Heart Association recommends that children and adolescents participate in at
least 60 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity every day."
The great news is exercise
comes in many forms and can be a lot of fun! With a little creativity you can
easily add some fun physical activity into your parenting style.
LEAD THE WAY! As we know we lead best by setting a good
example. Kids, especially younger
children, naturally follow their parents. So make sure you are looking after
your own health and making physical activity a priority in your life.
DO IT TOGETHER as
much as possible. In today’s overscheduled world, we need to
make sure we are spending quality time with our children. What better way than
to be active together. Since kids can’t always be alone roaming the
neighborhood, parents can take time to play with them.
MAKE IT FUN! Put on some music and dance. Play tag. Roller blade. Basically just play. Provide them with toys and equipment that
encourage them to be active while having fun. Remember some of those old neighborhood games
from the past! Include the neighbors at
times, especially during the summer evening hours!
Bikes, scooters,
hockey sticks and baseball bats will get your kids moving and active. For
preschool children, ride on toys that get them exercising like pedal cars, big
wheels and tricycles are always a great parenting decision.
CHEER THEM ON. You can create positive reinforcement with
encouragement and support. Help them find sports and activities that build
their self esteem. Attend their sporting
events and let them know you are their biggest fan whether they win or lose.
TURN IT OFF. Of
course, we need to limit the time our kids watch TV and play video games. However, make sure you do it in a positive
way. If they are angry that you just
turned off their favorite show, they might not be too excited about going out
rollerblading with you.
Allow screen time during designated hours, preferably after
homework is done and when physical activity is finished, like in the evening or
on Saturday morning when tired parents might need to catch a few extra minutes
of sleep.
Adding more physical
activity into your family’s routine will help you all feel better and get you
having more fun together. Perhaps even
importantly, as you model a healthy lifestyle you will help instill in your
children lifelong habits and healthy attitudes toward exercise and physical
activity.
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